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When we picture rural Alberta, many of us think of wide-open skies, hardworking families, and communities built on resilience. Yet beneath that image lies a quieter reality: women in rural Alberta face unique mental health challenges that are often overlooked. While strength and resourcefulness define these communities, isolation, stigma, and a lack of accessible services can make it difficult for women to find the support they need.

Living in rural Alberta means that everything—from groceries to medical care—requires more planning and travel. For women seeking mental health support, this distance often becomes a barrier. Some must drive hours to the nearest counselor, as well as the added costs of travel, child care, or time away from farm work, and accessing care becomes even harder.

Women in rural Alberta often juggle multiple roles: supporting their families, running households, helping with farming or ranching, working outside of the home and contributing to community life. This constant balancing act can lead to burnout, anxiety, and depression.

For mothers, perinatal and postpartum mental health support can be scarce outside larger cities. Young women may struggle with limited job opportunities, social isolation, and the pressure of traditional gender expectations. Domestic violence survivors in rural areas face even greater risks due to limited access to shelters and support services.

In addition, the agricultural lifestyle itself also brings stress. Unpredictable weather, fluctuating markets, and the physical demands of farm work that all take a toll. Research shows that farmers and agricultural workers in Alberta report higher levels of stress, anxiety, and even thoughts of suicide. For women, who often serve as both caregivers and co-workers in family operations, the emotional weight can be crushing.

Heartfelt Counselling has the opportunity to support women of all ages in rural communities by blending traditional therapy with the calming presence of animals to create an environment where women can feel safer, grounded, and supported. A recent study of middle-aged and older women found that women with strong attachment to animals reported lower anxiety and depression scores. In particular, among women who had experienced childhood abuse, the positive effect was stronger.

For many clients, sitting in a clinical office feels intimidating or unsafe. By contrast, being in the presence of therapy animals helps reduce anxiety, builds trust, and makes it easier to open up about difficult emotions. The animals act as non-judgmental companions, providing comfort during moments when words may feel too heavy.

Confidentiality and professionalism remain at the core of every session. Whether meeting in person or online, women can trust that their privacy is respected. The relaxed, non-clinical environment combined with animal support makes Heartfelt especially well-suited for women in rural areas who may hesitate to seek traditional counselling. In places where distance and stigma can prevent women from asking for help, Heartfelt provides a unique bridge: a confidential, compassionate space that feels safe, healing, and deeply connected to the rural way of life. Give me a call if you have any questions or would like to hear more about the programs that Heartfelt offers.

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There’s a new pony at the paddock—and her name is Pearl.


Pearl is a small, soft-eyed pony with a gentle heart. She’s quiet, kind, and very good at standing close when someone needs a little comfort. Pearl has come to help people who are feeling sad, worried, or going through something really hard—like grief or change.


Not too long ago, Pearl helped someone very special with a loss when she lived with her previous owner. When that special person was able to find peace and a small understanding of loss, Pearl's owner felt that she would be perfect to join our program and help others work through the challenges of grief. Pearl came to Heartfelt and found she was the new pony in the paddock. But here’s a little secret: being new isn’t always easy, even for ponies like Pearl.


When Pearl first arrived, everything was different. New sights, new smells, new routines. The other animals already knew each other. They had their favorite spots in the field and their own way of doing things. Pearl sometimes felt a little unsure—like she didn’t quite know where she fit in yet. Pearl didn’t quite know what to do. The world felt strange and different without them. One day, feeling confused and overwhelmed, Pearl ran away. She didn’t know where she was going—she just knew she didn’t want to be the new pony anymore. For a while, Pearl wandered. She missed her old home and felt unsure about where she belonged. Everything felt unfamiliar. She was grieving, even though no one could see her tears.

Have you ever felt that way?


Even though Pearl is great at helping others feel better, she needed a little kindness too. Kind hands reached out and gentle voices spoke softly. Her new owner found her wandering and brought her back to Heartfelt. Pearl was brought to a place where healing happens—not just for people, but for ponies too. Now, Pearl is slowly learning that even though she’s in a new place, she doesn’t have to be alone. The other animals are curious and friendly. Slowly, Pearl started to feel more comfortable. She began to recognize the voices of the humans who care for her. She found her favorite patch of grass. She even learned which pony likes to nap in the sun and which one loves to play. The humans give her time and space. And slowly, Pearl is finding her rhythm again—one step, one breath, one soft nuzzle at a time. And she got it! A quiet nuzzle from a horse named Hobo, a soft “hello” from a new friend, and plenty of space to just be herself.


Because she knows what it feels like to be new and struggle with feeling

s of loss, Pearl has a special way of connecting with people who feel the same. She doesn’t rush. She doesn’t judge. She just stands close, listens with her big soft eyes, and lets you know—you’re not alone.

So if you’re ever feeling out of place, like you don’t quite fit in yet, Pearl gets it. She’s been there. And she’s here now, to walk beside you—hoof by heart.


Pearl enjoying her hay
Pearl enjoying her hay
Enjoying the warmth of the sun.
Enjoying the warmth of the sun.


 
 
 

This is my favorite time of the year. Trees and flowers are blooming, animals are being born and the days are getting longer. For many, including myself, it is an opportunity to reset emotionally, especially after the long winter. For the clients at Heartfelt, they have had the opportunity to feed baby calves, let the chickens out of the stuffy winter coop and let the mini's play in a little more green space.


This time of year can also be important to our mental health. Individuals who struggle through the long, cold winter months, can find fresh, rejuvenating energy this time of year. Through simple acts of feeding, grooming or simply observing animals, we can create a feeling of calm, peace and empathy. By connecting with nature and animals, we reduce our cortisol (stress hormone) and anxiety and increases our oxytocin (bonding hormone) which can lead to increased motivation for routine and exercise. Clients have learned to express empathy for baby calves that can no longer be with the mom's or understanding that too much green grass for our mini animal partners is not good for them.


Spring can be the gentle nudge we need to move forward. By embracing nature and connection to animals, clients have the opportunity to find healing that is natural, accessible and deeply rooted in rural communities. Heartfelt takes this opportunity to welcome Charlie to the animal professional team to help clients navigate through the spring.


Charlie - our newest team member
Charlie - our newest team member
Hobo getting some spring hugs
Hobo getting some spring hugs

Note: The content provided in this blog is not intended for therapeutic advice. The intention of this blog is to provide information, resources and education.


 
 
 

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